Unconditional love for yourself! Questions

When people do not accept a precise behavior, feeling, perception, function, emotion, etc. at themselves, the tendency is to force themselves into a change, and not accepting the way they are. 
What that it is happening afterwards? Well, then the specific behavior is getting stronger, and the change is not happening.
However, whenever people start to accept themselves as they are and after that they come up with the change, things are getting better.

So, my questions are:

  • Are you often angry with you? Are you listening to yourself?
  • Do you accept everything that is you, what represent you?
  • Do you accept and acknowledge everything comes within your behavior?
  • Are you aware about your imperfections and weaknesses?
  • Are you accepting mistakes and choices you’ve made?
  • When you what to change something at you, do you accept what you want to change and later come with the changing? Or, do you denied that thing you don’t like about you, and force yourself to replace and integrate a new concept or notion?
  • Are you forcing yourself into an unpleasant situation or to adopt another behavior?
  • Are you blaming for your way of acting/reacting, or are you telling yourself ”that it is ok and you will do better next time”?
  • Do you blame yourself for everything that goes wrong?
  • When you think, you did something wrong, in what way do you talk with yourself?
  • Do you think you have unconditional love for yourself?

    “You can’t give love to someone else without knowing how to give yourself love first.” Tristan Loo



12 thoughts on “Unconditional love for yourself! Questions

  1. Wow, those are such great questions you have asked. Most times we tend to be so hard on ourselves when we mess up. I have learnt to love myself tenderly, never to take life too seriously and most of all know how to laugh at myself. When I make a mistake I learn from it and move on. I am going to be with me for a very long time. So it’s best I become at peace with me.


  2. Very nice post, Daniela! 🙂 Often we are concerned about unconditional love to our lover, but have never given a chance to unconditionally love ourselves. Thought-provoking!

    Subhan Zein

    #PS: I love your new hairstyle! You look fabulous! 🙂


  3. Oh, Daniela, this is one of my goals to reach by Memorial Day–to love myself unconditionally. Thanks to writing again every day and blogging for the past six months, I have come a long, long way from where I was. I am able to fully share this progress with my spouse and my closest friends and family members–and all of you in my wonderful circle of blogging friends. Continuing the climb upward am I!


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