Jealousy devastates most of the charming and delightful from!

This issue is a draft that I saved for a long time. I wrote the subject in my mind, I looked, I saw, I experienced and now I write.

 As humans, we start to experience jealousy since we were kids; we were jealous on our parents. When those children grew up, they began to be envious of their friends and later the jealousy concentrated most of the time on life partner. From my point of view, jealousy is an expressing emotion fear. Tru jealousy people think they show affection, and at a conscious level people believe they can control others, when actually, people try to control they on behavior.

 Yes, I am talking about a lot of confusion. Jealousy means also possession and proprietorial. People have this sense of ownership and

possessive. It gets worst when people try to protect what they assume a title holder for.

When people fall in love, they tell that they love the other person for what that person is. Well, in most of the cases, control makes his

appearance. Furthermore, I see jealousy like an alarm. In a love relationship, when one partner is jealous on the other partner, the person who expresses jealousy is the most vulnerable person in the relationship. For example, if we talk about cheating, a person who is expressing jealousy has a priority in cheating. Actuality, what I want to say is that this person is trying to protect herself for cheating.

Now let’s, take a view at what jealous means and conjugate.

Meanings: envious, desirous, resentful, grudging, green-eyed, suspicious, distrustful, mistrustful, doubting, insecure, anxious, possessive, proprietorial, protective, wary, watchful, solicitous, mindful.

Now, try to conjugate: I am (every word)…


Well, Jealousy is destructive, not constructive. You share beautiful things with your partner and not worries.

Jealousy devastates most of the charming and delightful, and keeps your locked somewhere afraid and insecure.
Here I have some quotes about this thing called jealousy.

“A lot of people get so hung up on what they can’t have that they don’t think for a second about whether they really want it.”
Lionel Shriver, Checker and the Derailleurs

“The more you love,the more love you have to give.It’s the only feeling we have which is infinite…”
Christina Westover, Precipice

“What sort of love is permeated by jealousy? You are jealous because you are unaware that everything you need is inside you.”
Peter Deunov

“People want you to be happy. Don’t keep serving them your pain! If you could untie your wings and free your soul of jealousy, you and everyone around you would fly up like doves.”
Rumi

“Jealousy is such an ugly emotion.”
Cassandra Clare, City of Fallen Angels

“Jealousy is all the fun you think they had.”
Erica Jong

“Jealousy’s a weak emotion.”
Jay-Z

“The worst part of success is trying to find someone who is happy for you.”
Bette Midler 


8 thoughts on “Jealousy devastates most of the charming and delightful from!

  1. Thanks for sharing with others Peter Deunov’s wisdom. I like 100% what you write here about the jealousy. Regards!

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  2. LOVE the Rumi quote: I, too, want to untie my wings and help many others fly up higher and higher into more and more light and love! Jealousy is very aptly called a “green-eyed monster”, for it stalks around in shadows and seeks to devour so many!

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