Anyone who is unhappy with the relationships they have, sexual or not, can benefit a LOT from this book. It’s funny, witty, and thought provoking. Not just about sex, but about *you*, and why you don’t have the relationships you want. It tells you why you are after it and how most of the time you have been or got programmed in Life to not get it. One is also better off reading Berne other books before getting this one : `Games People Play’ and `What do you say after you say hello’.