Assumption, supposition, presumptions!

Sometimes  Is easy to assume a behavior or what others could be saying?
Thinking mind saying: I know what you mean, and I won’t tell you because I just know!!
Alternatively, people like to improve what other people could say and think. After statements and presumptions are made, misunderstanding can appear between people.
In this case, let’s say that we have an individual who attributed a presupposition to another person, the individual acclaimed that he is sure the respective person thinks and behaves alike he said. And the person has no intention.

When false presumptions are made could explain on how an individual is really thinking about a situation, a case or another person, and the associations are performed. So in this case the individual can be excused.
The question is from what or from whom the individual is excused?
Well, the excuse can be used for personal self as a defense as the individual is not responsible for his particular thoughts. Remember here that is possible, as human that we are not always aware of our own intention, in the same time we know when or about who we can make presupposition.
The painstaking will be the attributed person.

 
Conclusion achieved: Ask and clarify anything before statements are made! Improving and imagination are very good when they are used with other intentions, perhaps at work?
Tips: Use your imagination to improve your life! 

We are what we do and believe, or we do and believe what we are?

My current interest is about ‘Self esteem thru self image’.

Self image is a picture about how  we see us, how others see us and how we think others see us.

Thru self image we filtrate information called strokes, and self esteem receive will receive.

According to Humphrey’s (1998): “There are two central dimensions to self esteem: the feeling of being lovable and the feeling of being capable”.

Self esteem is a judgement, based on the extent to which we feel loveable and capable. This will be fed to some extent by the lived evidence of how much we are loved and able to do things. This can shift according to situation (Ginnis, 2002).

How can we create and maintain a good and healthy self image?

 I believe that a positive attitude it is not enough if the person do not believe is true, for example a person can try to have a good attitude about himself and do not believe it.

My question is if we are what we do and believe, or we do and believe what we are?

I prefer the second, because some people do not believe in what they do. ‘’I was wondering If I believe what I did’’, here I am talking about self identity………..

 

Life Positions according to Eric Berne are:

 

Linked with this concept of self esteem, TA describes a range of “life positions” that we might take it.  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I’m_OK,_You’re_OK

 

 

I’m okay

 

 

I’m okay

 

 

You’re not okay

 

You’re okay

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

That is all! Now you can reflect!